Lisa Kudrow, 62, is eternally recognized as Phoebe Buffay from Friends, but she is also celebrated for her role as Valerie Cherish in the acclaimed series The Comeback on HBO Max. The show, which Kudrow created and starred in, portrays a seasoned actress trying to reclaim her position in the entertainment industry while facing various humiliations. Although the series did not achieve immediate success upon its debut in 2005, Valerie's relatable yet poignant character—who seeks to revive her career through a reality show—slowly garnered a loyal following.
The series faced cancellation, but a decade later, it returned with a second season that humorously examined the challenges for women of a certain age in Hollywood. Now, after another ten years, Valerie Cherish is back for a third and final season, exploring the theme of artificial intelligence as the script was created during a writers' strike.
Changing Perceptions
“Initially, only a small audience understood the show, but now many people relate to its themes,” Kudrow remarked during a video call from her Los Angeles home, punctuated by her signature laugh.
Question: What do you think influenced this shift in perception?
Answer: In 2005, reality television was still developing; the prevalence of shows like The Real Housewives didn't exist, and there weren't as many shared references. With social media now, everyone is their own reality star. A decade ago, the public was less aware of the mistreatment faced by many, especially women in the industry. We aimed to highlight these injustices, which some found difficult to watch, but unfortunately, many actresses have to confront similar challenges.
Q: Do you believe movements like Time's Up and modern views on feminism have influenced this awareness?
A: Absolutely. The series serves as a Rorschach test; viewers reflect their fears onto Valerie's character. You might think, “If someone treated me that poorly, I hope I would stand up for myself better,” or recognize moments of self-doubt. It evokes a sense of the #MeToo movement, not just as a statement but as a universal concern.
Confronting Self-Image
Q: Are you still concerned about how others perceive you?
A: Early in my career, I was anxious about media portrayals, but I eventually realized that what matters is the truth known by my friends and family. It's essential to move forward.
Q: How do you feel about your appearance now?
A: It's a mixed bag. When I see photos of myself, I think, “Wow, that's me.” Yet, I hesitate to make drastic changes because I fear looking different. Growing older is natural; I shouldn't have to apologize for it.
Living in Reality
Q: Have you ever struggled with denial in your life?
A: Yes, particularly regarding my appearance. I held onto the belief of being thin until I was confronted with reality. Denial can be protective but becomes problematic once it impacts your well-being.
Q: In The Comeback, James Burrows made a cameo and delivered tough news to Valerie. Has he ever provided difficult feedback to you?
A: He's always been diplomatic and straightforward. I once experienced a challenging moment when I was replaced in the pilot of Frasier. He informed me of the casting issue sensitively, and although it stung at the moment, I recognized he was correct.
Q: Was it difficult to voice your opinions while filming Friends?
A: Yes, articulating thoughts around complex issues was sometimes challenging. However, we valued open communication. If something felt off, we addressed it directly, which fostered a healthy atmosphere.
Q: Do you harbor any regrets regarding conversations with Matthew Perry?
A: No, I expressed my affection clearly. He certainly knew how I felt.
Returning to Familiar Ground
Q: How did it feel to film this season of The Comeback on the Friends set?
A: Initially, I thought it was just a fun nod from Warner Bros., but it became more significant. The stage holds deep memories for me, from saying goodbye to Friends to now concluding The Comeback. This series has become just as meaningful in my creative journey.
Q: Does your son have a role in this season?
A: Yes, he plays the IT guy and AI expert. It's interesting since he's quite different in reality.
Q: Have you embraced artificial intelligence in your work?
A: I'm cautious about it. While it offers incredible possibilities, Michael and I chose not to use it in writing the series. We prefer to maintain authenticity in our creativity.
Q: Are you open to debate in the writing room?
A: I prefer constructive discussions without emotions derailing the process.
Q: From the show, have you ever used the excuse of “reading lines” with your husband?
A: That has never been an issue for us. [laughs]
